I agree with locket... Just retal every hit on you and they will stop grabbing. It's when you have no one to retal and they know they can get away with your land and you can't hit back. It is so vital, maybe even more so with a small alliance, to retal every hit made upon you.

One reason I left PDM was because you guys are unstable right now and do not make smart decisions. Maybe years in the past I would have enjoyed your crazy antics and suicidal game play but now-a-days I'm more calm and collected.