I agree with locket... Just retal every hit on you and they will stop grabbing. It's when you have no one to retal and they know they can get away with your land and you can't hit back that you get raped. I mean look at what you did to Rage when you realized they couldn't retal? Point in case. It is so vital, maybe even more so with a small alliance, to retal every hit made on you.

One reason I left PDM was because you guys are unstable right now and do not make smart decisions. Maybe years in the past I would have enjoyed your crazy antics and suicidal game play but now-a-days I'm more calm and collected.